Maybe I should do them a favour and move away
You live with them?
No but we just got into an argument and they made clear I am a burden to them
Sometimes I think I should have quit arguing with my mom and gone out and found a suitable job. I did work delivering pizza when I lived with them. It wasn’t bad.
I live with my parents and I am big burden to them but I have no choice. Its for my best.
I have been a burden too the times I have been ill and not been in shape to help out with much. My parents haven’t complained though. But I know when it was at its worst it was rough on them.
Fixed it for you.
Also saying this as a parent myself.
I just gave my adult kid shiz for leaving a trail of dishes through the house – I’m not room service.
Doesn’t mean she’s not loved.
under emotions people say things they don’t mean. i am sure your parents dont think of you as a burden. i had many discussions with my parents, so many, they said hurting things, i said hurting things, it all blows away like the wind. there is love between parents and their children, unconditional love. it is just emotions. i dont do emotions unless i am in a depressed state. i moved away and now we have a lovely relationship.
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