Moved to medications
I haven’t yet found a drug that cures my hypersexuality. When I was on the maximum dose of Geodon, it took away my sex drive completely, but that is not an ideal solution either. Gabapentin makes it about a thousand times worse.
I’ve learned a few coping skills to deal with my hypersexuality. First off, I rely heavily on masturbation. Trying to just suppress my urges only makes them stronger, and that makes me more likely to do something risky. Second, I take melatonin and sometimes Benadryl for the nights when it’s so bad I can’t sleep. Lack of sleep makes it worse, also. Third, I sometimes write down my fantasies. Getting them put into words helps stop them from replaying on a loop inside my head.
Now that I’m in a monogamous relationship, things are both easier and harder. Easier because I can have sex at least twice a day. Harder because I kind of need more than that when I’m hypersexual, and if I ever screwed up and had sex with somebody else, it would basically destroy my life.