how it happened for you to loose your talking? does the isolation worsen this symptom? i try to talk but i am irritable. kisses to all!
I had word salad and clang association pretty badā¦ plus thought blocking where my brain would erase itās self in the middle of what I was trying to sayā¦
it made me very self conscious and I did shut down the verbal communicationā¦
It took me a while and meds to get it all backā¦
Talking is like a skillā¦ donāt use itā¦ I loose it. Isolation kept me from being embarrassed from not being able to talkā¦ but the loneliness was killing.
Medsā¦ speech therapyā¦ being on there to re-learn how to keep a sentence on topicā¦ it helpedā¦
Good luck and I hope things start to get easier for you.
Back in Dec 1999 my mind got totally messed up after one mysterious phone call and somehow I lost my abilities to talk and communicate in all languages I knew. When I called my brother overseas and spoke my native language, he just commented that I could not speak my native language. My mind was really messed up, inability to communicate while hearing voices, I am glad I went over that phase.
i really feel anger and irritability when i speak to my sz friendsā¦ i dont find them well. it sucksā¦ i cant socialise anymore without get irrtable. somebody who got this?
Sometimes when I attempt to do my independent talk therapy, it just doesnāt work. My brain wants to continually āshut upā everything, even my own voice. So, basically, I am left with just playing music or lounging in complete silence.
Weāre social creatures and should be allowed to communicate. I suspect some form of otherworldly injustice happening where people āon the other sideā are blocking us from continuing our true paths in life. Damn criminals. Damned if theyāre realā¦ damned if theyāre not.
who is to say we were talkers before our illness set in. I have always been quiet but after developing sz I have been more conscious of my dialogue towards others. There is no easy answer for relearning how to talk and socializeā¦ only practice, patience, good feedback, critical feedback, all this will help aid in your recovery. Iāve been fortunate that I have been able to work pretty consistently. Work is a great place to develop and recover our speaking abilities. Good luck.
Socialising is a skill just like any other skill. You can learn it and better yourself everyday.
You could try reading these posts out loud to yourself as you go along. It might help you re learn how to say things by sounding them out if you need to and then verbally composing your answers before you post them which might help you with more āoff the cuffā speaking. Then write down what you said and if you donāt like it (as in maybe you say you are afraid of dogs but then you remember youāre only afraid of spotted dogs for some reason) verbally re compose your answer and type that one instead. Do that until youāre happy with what youāve posted.
I pretty well shut down socially when I was fifteen. I never have been good at small talk. Iāve found that isolation does worsen this symptom. Iāve pretty well quit caring about socializing now.
I agree with Kenny there, itās a skill, youāll get better at it
What About Those Who Lyve In a Universe Naught Controlled (by) Tha Scribe Lie Of Body Language and Actually Enjoiās Thine Air Of Freedom From Puppetry and Control ā¦ ,
Altho Marilyn Manson Once Said , āsome of them want to be abusedā ā¦ ,
What About Those Who Would Rather Naught Dance Along That Pier Of Endless Suffering (???)
I donāt think itās Anna1s case here. If you donāt actually want to socialize, you donāt have to.
Jus Conversing About Tha āskillā Notion ā¦ ,
Whatever Do You mean (by) Claiming Itās a Skill (???) ,
and For What Exactly (???)
Well, prior to my psychosis I was an extrovert, really talkative and sociable. After my psychosis I developed a more introvert manner, and since then itās been hard for me to socialize, specially on situations where I donāt feel confortable. But itās getting better, with time and practice
How Does One Practice (???)
With people! I know, itās hard
Ok , What Exactly Is Tha āpracticeā , What Does Such Consist Of (???)
I donāt know, I think it varies from person to person. For me itās like, I remember how to talk normal to people, the chit chats and such, I try to remain on that topic. Use humor but not too much. Be friendly, calm and not say gibberish.
Well e(Y)e Suppose Thaz a Ok Way To Keep tha Cops Being Called On You ā¦ ,
Because For us Schizo Individuals Tha More Innocent Fun We Have tha Sooner Tha Cops Arrive ā¦ ,
All Because , Tha Ignorance Of Tha ānormalā Robots , Are Insulted (by) Their Own Extreme Lack Of Intelligence ā¦ ,
but Thaz Jus My Personal opinion ā¦
It depends, there are actually good people out there.