Is that possible,or do we always have to deal with someone in life??my parent doesn’t have confidence in me,they want me to recover and want me to work,but I am really low confidence now,and my life is just terrible for me,I hope you guys live a better life anyway
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i was thinking of staying home and playing game everyday,allow me to swear,playing games daily seems like a messed up life
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You are a good person and the fact that you work out and keep fit… you have a job… you are starting a relationship with a person… You have a lot going for you.
But I’m sensing that your either very tired lately…
maybe depressed lately
maybe hitting a negative swing
Either way… have you been at least talking to your doc/nurse or medical team?
I don’t want to say… tweak the meds…
Because I’m getting the feeling from your post… your working on staying positive… I can see you working on trying to stay in a good mindset…
But there is something that seems to be getting you down… do you have a therapist you can talk to… someone you can maybe figure out what you want to do with life to be fulfilled and get the positive vibe back?
Good luck.
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When was your last holiday without family and hospital doesn’t count? Might be something to look at as often we have all the answers. Just a matter of looking outside in with some distance to get a better perspective. So I think it just might be time to recharge the batteries and get some perspective.
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If hospital or therapy doesn’t count,then I havent had holidays without my family for years I think
Doesn’t that tell you something?
Yea,but I have got to have the motivation thr “want” you know??to do it,but I just don’t want to have stress nowadays,I just try to go step by step,and not breakout
Can’t expect yourself to do things like work 18 hours a day without lots of breaks. A good way to burn yourself out otherwise. Probably a bad example but gets the point home. Taking care of your illness comes down to looking after your mental health. @SurprisedJ said you’re starting a friendship. Maybe someone you can take with you. Think about it anyway. As tends to be an area we tend to neglect. I’m way past one myself and beats ending up in hospital if you ask me.