How to know if it's love or lust or just a desire not to be alone?

So how do we know? I honestly don’t know. I really didn’t find him attractive when we first met. But his personality I do find him attractive now. I struggle with intimacy though.

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Sex is a normal appetite not that different from eating. It’s physical, it’s a chemical reaction. Don’t try to read too much into it. If you like his personality, that is loving him.

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@anon80629714 lust comes after becoming closer in the relationship lust is not wrong nor bad…lust can be very good for intimacy between you and your man…so glad you’re still with him…good for you !!

@chordy wow that was beautiful.

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Its not love if its one sided.

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Love is when you run out of ideas and your partner always fixes it.

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