maybe its not but it is
You have to make your own life as pleasant as possible.
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60% pleasant. Things could be much worse.
cool good for you
I started to accepted it by blaming myself. I am responsible for my own actions. I got sz but i am not powerless over it. Its up to me to make the best of it. Maybe there is a god but that doesn’t change me being perfectly human with emotions and feelings. Life is terrible sometimes and so is rain, it doesn’t last forever.
i know my life aint that great either, it could be better. Just accept what it is. Just be happy what you have man. Life is always sunshine and rainbows it rains sometimes.
Just try not to compare yourself with other people. I’m not saying you have a bad attitude. I think the same thing sometimes. “If you have a good attitude you will suffer less, if you have a bad attitude you will suffer more.”
As soon as you accept that life is hard, unfair and totally un satisfying, the sooner you can start from the bottom, like making a mental list of things you hate, and a solution to each issue
Life is supposed to terrible? How come no one tells me these things?
I try to make my life pleasant, but a lot of people try to make it awful.
I’ve changed my philosophy from trying to be comfortable in life to being comfortable being uncomfortable. Life has its hardships. Some people get completely crapped on by life, others seem to get super lucky, but Ive been happier since I’ve stopped trying to runaway from the cards I’ve been dealt and started learning to play them. Im improving my situation by dealing with my trauma and all of my negative stuff instead of by moving around it or pushing through it without processing it.
Im learning its okay to feel sad sometimes, or upset, or hungry, or just generally blegh. I still a going to do what I have to do for the day. I guess that’s what I mean by being comfortable being uncomfortable. David Goggins gives a good speech on it.
With that being said, I still struggle most days. Like 4/7 days I’m dealing with negative symptoms, but its better than the 7/7 days I was at. I expect it will continue to improve.
Joy is immense acceptance
-osho
No one beat me up please I just like this quote for me personally
Life is not unfair.life is quite fair i think.our paranoia and wrong perceptions make life unfair.life is humane as possible as us (all human)
The new guy at work is just itching to say some nasty, mean things to me. For my last swan song I made him and this other ass look bad today. At least I’ll go down fighting.
Life is often unfair. There’s many examples every day. You’re right, that’s just the way it is and the trouble starts when your expectations are too high and you think it should be fair.
This is something I’ve learned to do as well. Well said.
Sometimes it’s fair, sometimes it ain’t.
Life is as terrible as when you compare yours to everyone else’s.
Imho.