How many asexual men truly exist?

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I want to have an asexual boyfriend. In the future.

But really, truly, how common is that.

I just don’t like sex.

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I don’t want to be with a guy who sacrifices sex just cos I don’t like it. I want to be with a guy who is like me, he doesn’t like sex either.

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I haven’t had sex since 1990. It doesn’t bother me at all that I haven’t . Quite frankly I’d rather eat a plateful of pork ribs and chicken wings than have sex.

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I hate the stereotype that a man must dominate his partner during the sexual act. I like gentle sex. I’d rather sacrifice sex and get away with only kissing and cuddling, than behave like a macho.

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Maybe there is a dating website for it.

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That would be awesome. Dunno why I never checked

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thanks! there really is. I hope it is running in the uk too …lol right now 6 people are online on the website :laughing:

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Ace-book.net

Mr. Star is an asexual guy.

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Thanks Ninjastar, do you know if it runs in the UK too?

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One. And only because his dic* rotted away and fell off because of leprosy.

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No clue, I’ve never looked.

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in my travels I have meet all kinds, A is like saying they don’t have the part of brain too relate. sorry I like a good sex joke but with them well, they care less.

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to better the question ……….how many women are asexual out there.

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I don’t know any irl except me.

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not being bad…but…u could enjoy sex…with the right person…imo…full fact

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Maybe if I MYSELF change in a certain way and of course the suitable person then yea but I just can’t imagine myself becoming a sex person. Right now I’m thinking maybe that’s a good thing since I have an addictive nature. Maybe I would have been a sex obsessed person, :woman_shrugging:… Trying to give it a positive spin that I’m asexual.

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There’s no way to know an exact number. 🤷 There are those that are ace in the traditional sense, and then there are also those that aren’t ace by attraction but abstinent. There is even an orientation for those who have attraction but are disgusted by sex. It’s quite a wide spectrum.

I, myself, rarely feel sexual attraction and moreso have sex because I find it physically enjoyable. I enjoy a more aesthetic and affection-based attraction instead.

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Sex doesn’t really bother me much.

I have experimented a fair bit, and it’s not something I am too fussed about really.

Probably a good thing, as I don’t have a long queue of potential partners at my door.

I am 33 now, and I have been single pretty much most of my life. Message received and understood!

:rofl:

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That’s flattering to hear.

Tbh idk if I’d even experiment and check with someone unless it truly feels right to experiment with the whole sex idea. Which I can’t imagine :frowning: sad times. But it’s fine.I will adapt to that. And hopefully still thrive lol!