wow there seems to be a lot of bad feeling going on here
its not healthy 
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They say you don’t get a second chance to make a first impression.
That made me realize maybe I should give people a second chance, sometimes people are having a bad day when you deal with them for the first time. But if the second time goes bad, or the third, etc… then I will probably make a judgment call about them.
Also pay more attention at what people do than what they say.
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I judge people based on their actions and on the way they live their lives. If they live peacefully that says a lot for them. If they are in constant drama and turmoil they are making some unwise choices there I think.
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the universe is the only judge known IMO
from birth to death
big time
I try and let most things wash over me, people are sometimes not very nice but you have a choice and that is Will i let this thing bother me or will i just let it go and get on with things, you can choose to not get upset
Fair enough if you don’t like me Pedro, but please don’t pick fights with people just for lols. Most people come here to escape hostility and to find help.
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[I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character. Let’s take a minute and reflect on what Martin Luther King meant when he talked about the content of character. This refers to the core ethical values of honesty and integrity, respecting others, taking responsibility for one’s actions, being fair and just, and being someone who promotes love and compassion in others. We can also think about the content of character in terms of core virtues and the extent to which one embodies wisdom, humility, courage, justice, temperance, and the value of human dignity.]–Psychology Today
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@anon16583342 I was going to say something quite similar, that you can only judge someone by the quality of their character. But you’ve said it all quite well
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Are you OK? Would you like a cup of tea?
I’m fine. I just don’t think its right to ignore someone who keeps picking on others… Pedros had beef with a bunch of us this week.
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By how they act in real life.
Thanks, but I copied and pasted part of an article from the magazine Psychology Today.
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i judge all the time, forming opinions on what i perceive, basically.
need to work on a degree of open mindedness, aka…i don’t know…i am developing this skill
stuff such as that
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