Hey guys…I’m wondering what I’m doing wrong. I’ve tried talking to multiple girls and they just ghost me after the first reply.
I’m not really looking but I really don’t get what I’m doing wrong. I’m not good looking but my picture is decent and I worked on my profile to make it good
Am I really in the Truman show or something? It’s like as soon. As all the changes happened I could never get a girl to talk to me… why😬
Are you talking about tinder or other dating apps?
Dating apps
Enough Christmas 
girls get tons of hit ups
any dude that doesnt show hes high roller in profile gets nothing
Wish I had some answers for you, man lol the online dating apps are…strange. I just deleted all of mine, again haha
If want to get more matches:
My advice is to work on yourself. I know you’re working out and stuff, so you’re making things right for your future self 
Also, are by any chances all your pics selfies?
If the problem is after you get matches, I would suggest to keep things simple and ask for an in person meeting as soon as it seems appropiate…
I’m not on the market right now.
I used to be, and about one in 5 girls would reply at least once. About one in 10 would keep the conversation going.
First, choose a dating app which stresses the importance of filling out profile info, not just pics.
Second, look for good matches based on intro and various info they’ve provided (hobbies, relationship expectations etc).
Third, be patient. Fake profiles and scammers probably abound. Heck, I get hit up on instagram all the time and it’s never serious.
It may sound too much, but either hiring a pro for some of your pics or having a friend that knows how to take pics is extremely important. I know it sounds weird to ask a friend for that ■■■■, going around town taking pictures of yourself. But I think it’s worth it…
Not all women are looking for money.
That said, some are.
The ones that are might respond but after responding, they might take a good look at your profile and see you don’t have a lot of money
Or you don’t share hobbies
It’s not necessarily something you’re doing wrong.
What’s usually the first thing you say?
You just keep trying, one day it will happen for you. It’s a numbers game, the more women you meet and talk to, the greater your chances of finding one who will like you and go out with you, money or not. And of course be nice and don’t be rude or obnoxious or desperate.
Have you tried growing out a mustache and getting a fanny pack?
LOL 
Nah, in all seriousness what @77nick77 said is very true. It is a number’s game. Think of this way if you ask out 100 women, at least 1 has to say yes and probably really like you.
Man…I got the girl of my dreams when I was in my 20s by taking pictures that made me look like I had money… After I met her she didn’t care but I ■■■■■■ it up lol
I think I’m gonna do like you said…first work on myself and if I get to the point of having something to offer I will try then … for now tho…no pussy for me 
I just say hello and try to complement them in some way. I think my horrible writing skills might be a problem but Im not motivated to fix it.
I feel like maybe they sense Im different and they just ghost me …
I used to have problems, but after I played the Leisure Suit Larry series, my luck changed 
They won’t know that from 1 text typically. I think they might be the problem rather than you
Ghosting after 1 message is not enough to form a picture, on their part I mean. I doubt thats a stain on you personally, mind!
One thing thats always an attractive quality, as a fundamental basic; is having some confidence. Be confident in who you are, what you like, what you do .etc but try not to be flash or arrogant with it. This is a great start point. Remember Johnny Bravo? “Hey baby!” and when they tols him to go away, he just said “Yeah whatever” and continued elsewhere 
has to be a tad like that.
Okay, are you chasing after the right kind of girl? If you’re chasing after a normal, healthy female and you are not healthy and not working (if I remember correctly), you’re likely not what they are after. Not trying to be mean, but women are generally not looking for a guy they have to support and care for.
You may need to lower your sights and look for someone else who is in the same boat as you.
Yes, I agree with this. Go to mental health clubhouses or day programs or support groups where you can meet other people who are in the same boat as you. Get to know people there, make friends and it may turn into something more. I met girls in group homes and vocational programs and dances, I was lucky and it turned into a little more. I didn’t go to those places specifically to meet women, I went there for the purpose they were meant for, but it was a nice bonus to meet a few women. Churches might be good places to meet women.
That’s what my therapist said too man. I’m wondering where do you find all these broken ladies lol
Al-anon.
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