I’ve noticed a lot of fighting on here. Please, let’s all calm down. This was such a peaceful place. Like a pretty little garden and we were all pretty flowers and shrubs.We weren’t all happy by any means but things were tranquil. I didn’t feel like I had to watch my mouth when talking about my opinion unless it was something harsh that I didn’t think anyone could benefit from.
So please, ask yourself, will my comment help the situation? If it could possibly be inflammatory in any way is it really necessary to say? Some things aren’t the most pleasant to hear but it seems to me like lots of people have crossed the line between necessary truth and hurtful retaliation. There is always a way to be gracious. For example, say ‘I guess we just see things two different ways’ instead of ‘■■■■ you ■■■■ hammer’.
There is a difference between an honest opinion and a ■■■■ you.