Have You Ever Thought For A Minute That We Don't Deserve

DX'd - Sz/SzA
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Have you ever thought for a minute that we don’t deserve to have partners or deserve to have sex because an awful lot of us don’t take regular baths or showers? Just a thought.

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i shower frequently, the reason i dont deserve a partner or sex 1. not very attractive 2. no personality 3. socially inept . thats it, thats me in a nutshell. but i do shower frequently, its part of being an adult

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Well, I’m speaking for myself at least.

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Some people like stinky bodies, it takes all kinds to meek the world go 'round.

I like a shower with Dove (for men)soap, smells so good.

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If my partner is going to leave me because I smell from time to time then I don’t have a partner.

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It’s the #1 thing that my wife complains to me about, not showering. I tell her I’m allergic to water but with enough nagging I do shower eventually

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My last partner (ex husband) used to beg me to take showers. Instead of taking more showers, I just got rid of him. I do take a shower once a week though.

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I wouldn’t mind if you were married to me

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Awww, you’re a sweet heart @Moonwalker.

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You’re my kinda woman!
Thanks for the laughs🤓

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I don’t think people have or don’t have a mate because they do or don’t deserve them. I don’t try because the normie women aren’t going to go for a guy that lives with a relative and won’t stay with a guy with sza. Also I’m fat. I do however shower every day.

Once I get my own place and maybe lose more weight I plan on trying a dating site for MI. But that may not work due to low population here and surrounding area.

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people on this site have recommended something called nolongerlonely or something .com but there’s barely any people in my area and I live in a high populated area!

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So I’m likely screwed. I have no avenue to meet people here.

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I’m married to Ms. SSI who gets jealous when some other woman gets in the way. Her Mother Ms. America Health Care keeps me down too. Since I live where Ms. SSI wants me too now women pretty much ignore me anyway.

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As they should, if you are married, @Blizzard. Or, did I misinterpret you?

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I’m being sarcastic. I just don’t care to have a relationship in the inner city or especially raise kids there but I see no way out at this point.

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I shower daily … but I don’t feel deserving of a partner because I always feel inhuman … actually I feel often times I’m not good enough. With the last dipstick I was with … he often times told me I was ugly…(not in those words ). He’d say I needed a new look or needed to exercise … he’d say he’s happy as I am but he thought doing those things will make me feel better about myself … I didnt think I was that unhappy :confused: sometimes These knockbacks get me down

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I get sick if I do not shower + my hair does not look nice :confused:

I do a lot to take care of myself. Even better than my non-scz friends. I only have to really force myself to brush my teeth. I get lazy but really some things you have to do in life. In the end it becomes a habit.

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Oh, I thought you were going to say “don’t deserve to have sz”. Deserve to have partners and sexual? I don’t see it as something I deserve or not. I wanted a partner and I was lucky enough to find one. He wasn’t a prize that was awarded to me. He chooses to be with me just like I choose to be with him.
I do feel bad when I’m struggling and haven’t showered in a few days and it’s noticeable. I guess he deserves a better partner at those times.
Once I really think about it, that’s a complicated question…

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I’m curious to know if there are women from the San Diego area on nolongerlonely.com. I’ve never tried a dating site.

Anyway, I shower almost daily or at least every other day.