"Have you been out to see anyone?"

Why do they insist on asking you whether you have been out to see anyone when they know,because you’ve told them,that you have no friends? The reason? Long term problems with social interaction dating back to childhood that are probably due to Aspergic traits and or nonverbal learning disorder. Of course they don’t know this and have never helped you with it because they prefer to presume to know you rather making the effort to get to know you.