Relationships are hard for every one.
Love is harder, especially if you think about it to much, where is the limit between love and obsession
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Love needs emotions which I lack due to sz.
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Love is a concept. Maybe because our mind has been warped so much that it screwed with that idea
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I dont struggle with love. However, I’ve ruined friendships and potential friendships before I was medicated. This is going all the way back to when I was a teenager. I was not diagnosed and medicated until I was 43.
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I gave my heart over to my ex wife, she sliced it open in two and stomped on it.
Never again
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I’m not having trouble with it. I feel great love for my wife and kid. I love my kitty to bits as I have my previous kitties. I also have a select few close friends where I would say that if I don’t love them, there is still deep affection.
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I love someone who will never love me back…
Also love my family a lot and the very few friends I have back home and there are a people on the forum I love too
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Time to move on. You strike me as someone who deserves to be loved.
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Of of damn wave. You are resilient enough to be strong after that 
I’m sorry… Damn… I feel i did the same
The master of love is here 
The best I could do was end my obsessions and simply not replace them. Love is not for everyone.
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He doesn’t want a relationship. Wants to focus on work and studies . Doing masters in computer science… also thank you. You seem like a really cool person too
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That’s excuses, show him he wants you 
And thank you
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Yes, i agree, for myself it was unfulfilled love. I fell in love with the wrong woman. I was looking for a saviour from my current lifesituation and not a partner. It was doomed to fail. These days after 30 years i can see and know so much more about relationships, money and love.
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I’m happier now. Which shows and gets me a bit more male attention. I am with great carefulness opening up to the idea of a relationship again. But how to navigate love is hard.
I’ve been chatting with someone who expressed a clear romantic interest. Even proposed to fly to my place. I’m afraid I can’t measure up to expectations though in all sorts of ways. And the opposite, that I wouldnt fall in love and hurt someone. Sometimes I’m okay. Sometimes I’m terribly insecure. Like, today he doesn’t mail me back as much as normal. I immediately think “oh no, i must have said something weird, he doesn’t like me now and thinks I am boring and stupid and crazy”. Which is rather tiring. And I try not express it.
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