Exactly. These girls weren’t saying, “sex is more important than you.” They were saying, “sex with you hurts me, but you still want sex, so go get it elsewhere.”
Besides which, if you’re in a sexual relationship with someone, and you’re not sexually compatible, that’s a problem. It’s not always a deal-breaker, depending on the sex drive of each person. But it can be. And there is nothing wrong with valuing sexual compatibility in a relationship.
Just a tip… 5 inches is fine. You should probably worry more about your weight than your ■■■■■ length. It’s funny how a small ■■■■■ becomes an all-encompassing problem () for some people when it almost never is a real deal-breaker for women.