Getting a property together ? I can’t do it

anon80629714 · January 30, 2020, 9:48pm

So we are gonna rent but eventually he wants to buy a property together.

He says he can’t have kids outside marriage. Well I’m fine with not having kids. But … I also don’t want to buy a property with him without marriage. Is that selfish ?

toughluck33 · January 30, 2020, 10:02pm

Sounds like you’re being logical to me.

naturallycured · January 30, 2020, 10:03pm

Sounds rational.

leafy · January 30, 2020, 10:03pm

I think I can understand how you feel. I don’t understand why the two of you haven’t gotten married. Does he not want marriage? Or you don’t want marriage? Or you just aren’t ready yet?

anon80629714 · January 30, 2020, 10:05pm

Well I have part property I’m happy for him to live there I just don’t want to sell my share and buy a property with him if we are not going to marry.

anon80629714 · January 30, 2020, 10:05pm

I want it. He’s not ready. Or I’m not sure he ever will be. But he’s asked to buy a property together. I’m not comfortable with the idea.

system · February 13, 2020, 10:05pm

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