Any advice how find freinds after 40
Lately Iāve been investigating into meetup.com
I havenāt found any groups I like but maybe there will be something for you.
Iām a little shy of 27 and itās really tough for me to find friends!! So 40+ is probably even tougher.
But Iām thinking of starting a group on meetup.com for people who use electronic cigarettes.
Maybe I can meet some vapers and we can go for a hike in the woods and smoke our e-cigs. But that might be a lame idea. Who knows though.
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Sounds like good idea to me
Go for it
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My mum makes friends every where she goes
Maybe since she has friends already she has a higher self-esteem which makes it easier for her to make new friends. Itās cyclical. Iām good at making convo with strangers but not good at making friends. I make people laugh, make people intrigued, etcā¦ Iām very social. But it never leads to a friendship. But the fact that your mom has tons of friends already thereās less pressure on her when trying to make friends so itās easier for her. I think the illness set me back socially for a long time and now Iām at a disadvantage because donāt have many friends, even though I have a lot to offer intellectually and comedic-wiseā¦these days.
Very wise words goyankees
Hadnāt thought of it that way
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take on some hobbies/classes / volunteer / and talk to everybody you meet
I donāt have friends I hang out with and probably wouldnāt want any because Iām introverted. I do talk to people I see at the gym a lot though. (Which is mostly guys)
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