When it comes to the higher echelon of business or government, friends are chosen carefully. I can see how women have friendships differ than those of men.
I prefer to be on my own so i would take the money.
I donāt need friends, I need money.
tough oneā¦when my parents go and Iām all alone I would take friendsā¦but for 20 more yearsā¦i get to take the money
money can sure help though
Money. Money talks.
I would also like balance BUT I know the world often doesnāt work that way. For me my life would be a lot less stressful if I had money but if I didnāt have other people to rely on, I donāt know that Iād be able to keep a full time job to keep the money flowing anyways.
Iād like to think of it as a sliding scale. Money on one side and friends on the other. My perfect scale would lean more towards money not because Iām particularly greedy but rather because I am not a social person. Iām okay with having just one friend, in fact I prefer it that way, regardless of whether or not I have enough money to cover my bills and save. That just becomes an added plus.
If my scale leaned more towards friends I would be incredibly anxious all the time as I wouldnāt have the money to pay for the things I need AND my social anxiety would be through the roof.
So my scale would look kind of like this
im thinking a roommate would allow me bothā¦a friend and money. that would be enough for meā¦I just got to find someone that needs a cheap room and doesnāt mind my company
Iād definitely take the money. So called 'friends" have always let me down all of my life. They canāt be counted upon. You can count upon money absolutely.
Iāve never met a dollar I didnāt like
Iād like a balance, an inbetween. But if I HAVE to choose, Iād choose friends.
True friends donāt let you starve.
I donāt have a lot of friends, but my social needs are met. And the friends I do have, I have a close bond with.
I donāt ever want to go back to feeling like thereās no one to turn to, no one to share the good and bad with, no safety net.
I would rather starve than be all on my own again.
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