Hey I’m late to the party sorry about that! I’ve had issues in the past with this too, (even the cringy nasty titles ruin it for me) that’s why I now go on these specific feminist porn sites, filmed by an all woman crew, all consensual ect.
I honestly always wanted to be a pornstar, and a feminist, and revolutionize the way things are. I believe you can be both for sure. If anything instead of boycotting porn and shaming it we should be trying to make it safer, same as prostitution and pretty much all other forms of sex work.
I do understand why people don’t watch porn. The stuff easiliest found is trash. You can never tell if it’s consensual and it’s never realistic. I just hope one day the guidelines and rules change so we get less trash and more good old wholesome porn, lol.