Feeling depressed. Can't help it

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Pretty sure it’s situational depression…

I got a positive pregnancy test and got my blood drawn last week to confirm it.

It was confirmed and my HCG levels were very high for how far long I’d supposedly be.

Well, now I’ve been bleeding the last 48 hours.

I’m upset. Pretty sure I’m having a chemical pregnancy/miscarriage. (When you lose the child before 6 weeks or whatever)

I called the OB office. They told me to go to the emergency room if I wanted… Even tho they then basically told me the emergency room wouldn’t be able to do anything.

My only option is to wait till my first ultrasound appointment… which isn’t for another 3 weeks.

I’m feeling panicked, overwhelmed and can’t focus on anything, I’m having a hard time eating and all I want to do is sleep… I’m also randomly crying.

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I’m sorry that you have to go through this.

I hope a miracle happens and that it turns out alright in the end.

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I’d go to the emergency room …

I’m sorry @anon61987434

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Thanks.

@Jonathan2

It sucks. The husband and I have been trying awhile now and I was excited

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Depression is common with worrying and loss. What “if’s” will kill your mind. I understand you have no choice but to constantly think about it because so much is tied up in it, dreams and hopes. You’re doing all you can do. Sometimes things happen to us that we have no control over. The outcome is gonna be what it’s gonna be. Don’t drive yourself crazy. You’re a good person.

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Thanks, @2Waynez

I had been googling about chemical pregnancies and apparently its normally caused by something being wrong in the dna makeup.

So probably for the best…

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I will go to the emergency room… if things get worse…

@everhopeful

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Really sorry @anon61987434— please keep us updated and wishing the best for you and your family :purple_heart:

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Im sorry your going through this.

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Thank you @Schztuna

It’s pretty sucky lol… but it’ll be okay either way.

I’ll keep y’all updated

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Thanks @Natron

All will be okay

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@everhopeful

I am going to the emergency room in a couple hours. Gotta wait for my step son to be done with football practice.

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I think that’s the best thing.

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Yeah, I spoke to another healthcare person and they sounded persistent that I go to the emergency room

@everhopeful

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I’m so sorry @anon61987434

Sending you some gentle thoughts. We are here for you.

I also think the ER is a good idea.

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Thank you, @anon90992146

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I’m really sorry to hear this :cry:. Seems like you got it right with situational depression. Seems really stressful. I pray you feel better and everything works out :heavy_heart_exclamation::pray:

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Thanks everyone.

I did go to the emergency room.

They determined it was a chemical pregnancy/miscarriage cause now my test came back negative…

Ugh.

What a bummer :disappointed:

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I’m really sorry to hear this @anon61987434— I hope you’re doing alright given the situation and everything.

Maybe some self-care stuff might be helpful if/when you feel up for it and when you have the time.

Please take care :purple_heart:

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I’m sorry @anon61987434 .

@Schztuna gives some good advice . Look after yourself. This can’t be easy.

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