I would totally wear one of the ugly shirts lol.
I have a knitted hat that resembles a wolf head. I would wear that lol.
My philosophy towards other people regarding my Sz was ‘Give them an inch and they will take a mile, give them a mile and they will take an inch’. I was always pretty open with people regarding my illness and disability in the hope that they would see that I wasn’t afraid of their judgement, surmising that predatory people thrive on other people’s fear. Show that I am unafraid and they have nothing to threaten me with. This worked with most people, but not all.