I remember going with one girl who had a reputation. All my friends tried to split us up. One friend warned me that this girl was a nymphomaniac - needless to say this wasnāt the worst news I had ever received.
@everhopeful wroteā¦
āIāve had tons of relationships, and they were nothing but work in the end.ā
āā¦in the endā Teh, heh, heh
(I have a butt sex joke Iām just dying to post, but Iāll save it for another day)
Well for starters Iām too poor to have one right now. However the closest I got was with a Woman who although was one sided still went out to eat with me many times. It was pretty nice and although there were lows I would say that overall it was a positive. Of course I have known women who I would think it would be best just to stay away from and not have in my life. So basically it is the same as what everyone says āIf you meet the right person itās niceā. Thatās my opinion at least.
Yes I have to agree. Thereās more to life than just sex, a lot goes into a relationship.
Sex is definitely overrated. I think relationships are important though. Youāre not alone, Iāve not been in a relationship with anyone since my twenties (Iām forty two). I just never meet anybody.
Youāre not missing Much!
Sex and relationships are definitely NOT overrated when done right, think of it this way,
sex and relationships are a lot like a fart, if you have to push it, itās probably shat.
iām lucky i was in a relationship before i got sick and she stayed with me anyway. i love her very much but donāt be in a rush to get into a relationship or it may just fall apart. we have sex but not as often as we use to before i got sick. it infuriates her i know it.
Yeah I havenāt had sex since my 20ās also. I am in my late 30ās, a lot of people think I look a lot younger though. So that can make things kind of awkward when trying to meet new people.
Meeting new people is a challenge with an illness but Iāve read and seen many success stories. So I try my best to remain an optimisit 
Iām sorry to hear youāve been suffering so much. A person has basic needs and they need to be able to embrace what they desire that is the American dream. The things you go through arenāt just to you. Even when I was working as a sprinkler fitter in Las Vegas hardly any women wanted me or wanted to be around me. They were quite mean sometimes, and if it was meeting the first night (since then I was very outgoing), theyād rip my heart out and leave me for dead with less money than before if you know what I meanā¦
Theyād get drinks from me, theyād just live it upā¦then ditch me to go drink with some other guy when I was too poor to get them anything else.
It made me twisted in a way, and I have to STILL take out the kinks in my lifeās rope I guess you could say.
Youāre not alone, Iāve been rejected many, MANY times. But the fact of the matter is you have to keep trying or thereās nothing else to live for. Get to it when you feel it is time to try. But donāt put it off foreverā¦that means all the girls will be chasing YOU instead of me!~
Do your meds kind of kill your sex drive?
The reason I ask is because I was on a massive amount of risperidone when I was first diagnosed paranoid sz.
And my sex drive back then was close to nil.
I take alot of meds and it robs me of my libido.
Hi @neveragain nice to see you online.
Yeah I am over being angry about being rejected. I am quite content with the fact that not every woman is going to be attracted to me.
I really just want a friend I can kind of kick it with, and see where it goes from there.
Have you ever tried meetup.com?
No, is it safe and reliable?
Itās more of a group based website rather than datingā¦so it can be easier for you to integrate.
Cool. I am thinking about taking up dance lessons also. Salsa!
Youād be one heck of a guy if you learned that!