Do you get weird about new friends?

When I make new friends, I get a little weird.
I get a bit obsessive and want to interact with them as much as possible.

Usually, I also go through a phase of “is this a crush, or so I just really want them to be my friend?”

Does anyone else get like this?

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I dont really make new friends anymore, but I can definitely relate to that feeling sometime in my life.

But everyone needs their alone time.


Oh totally, being bisexual can sometimes be confusing when it comes to sorting crushes and friends.

I just want all the love, this world isn’t enough. Lol


It’s like, no one is safe, so I feel like I gotta rule them out as a potential target and then I start overthinking

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Wat is “friend?”



Someone to share the last cookie with


Haha, true true.

It’s been a while since I’ve had one of those, so I usually just end up housing all the cookies myself :sweat_smile:.


I low-key have a crush on all my friends. I dunno, just the way my brain is wired I guess :woman_shrugging:

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Oh I get it. It’s a hassle.

To be safe, I much prefer to friendzone a person and try to overlook any flirtatious signs. It kind of comes down too attraction across all fronts, but divided into sexual and non sexual.

I must save them from the ecstasy and pleasures I could cause them. Lol.

When I was in a group home a girl was similar to you. When she got a friend she got too attached to him. She kept following him around, and everybody thought she had a crush on her friend. She kept telling everybody that she didn’t have a crush on him. You don’t follow people around where ever they go but, it is similar to this girl.

I always prep for new friends don’t ask me why I guess I’m just shy about things I might make something I’ve heard that they like or buy them a present to see how they’ll react but whatever the case this I can say we’re all weird in our own strange way

I had some friends getting weird. I am not in contact with them any more. It’s really tough, some sort of test of endurance. But some broke the contact cause I got weird, I guess.

I can be like this, but it’s usually the opposite. They tend to attach themselves to me too much. When that happens, they often project what they want onto me, and I can’t always abide.

I just wish people would accept me for who I am, where I am, and stop assuming where I should be. What I could be doing better. I’m doing great. I don’t need people’s involvement, I want it. People don’t understand the difference. They’re too quick to think they could help me be a better me, and it’s not their responsibility. It just makes me feel like I’m not enough as I am.


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