I watched a video on TV about dating in China. There is big rooms where random men and women meet, there was a women who refused all the men as no one made more money than her. It looked like shopping for a partner, getting the one with more money.
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There’s a reality series coming out called naked attraction were your only allowed to pick someone seeing their naked body neck down. That’s crazy to me!
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That would of been a better name for the show 
The next show it will be more focused “Balls or Boobs”
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Seen them. And if you want a manipulative relationship - go right ahead.
They are more probably interested in the contents of your bank account.
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Thing is there are some rich people who are sooo cheap.
I had a couple rich boyfriends and they were sooooo cheap.
They didn’t buy me anything really and took me out for dinner only once and made a huge deal about it.
Not nice !
Had poor boyfriend who was so generous and would probably spend his last money on us and buy us a pizza or something.
I’m pretty generous I think or can be so i don’t like a cheap partner.
I’m not a gold digger but it’s nice to take care of each other.
My current boyfriend is poor and if we marry I want a prenup so he can’t take my car from me.etc
I’m poor too but I own a car.
Thing is a prenup can cost ten thousand dollars so i would have to take out a loan to get a prenup and i don’t want to go in debt but think May marry him.
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And that’s why they are rich. My wife and I mostly went on picnics when we were dating and I cooked. What’s more impressive? A mediocre meal in a fancy restaurant or getting to eat scratch-made fettucini carbonara in the woods next to a babbling creek with the area all to yourself? That includes making the noodles on the spot.
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Let’s keep it pg-13
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I kept my noodle in my pants while we were dating and until we were married. What you see in this video is pretty much what I was doing back in 1998:
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Thats a Disaster in the Beginning. Purely cos there is no trust in the relationship.
Sorry - I tell it like it is.
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Hubby and I both had nothing when we met. We don’t have much now, but we have eachother. That’s all I need. A prenup never would have crossed my mind, and apparently, it didn’t cross his either. I could understand a middle aged man wanting one after he’s spent his life building his wealth and maybe owns a company, or a single mother who has life insurance money from a deceased spouse and a kid to think about. I think there are situations where it makes sense. For me, though, I wouldn’t want one. Of course, I can’t imagine ever being with anyone but hubby. He’s the one for me.
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Yeah - thats what i mean. You and your partner should be the one spirit. When you start tarting about with Pre Nuptials - it puts doubt into the relationship.
When you love someone - worrying about your assets should be the last thing on your mind.
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Men are suppose to be hunters and gatherers.
Women are suppose to be the brain !
So obviously, when smartness comes it goes to women.
But when security and safety comes Men shows up.
So what shall I conclude?
Just image all have equal responsibility !
Then each could have multiplied with out a partner.
I wonder what the reason for this gender differences.
When all crave for equality?
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My wife is capable of providing security and safety on her own.
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So what’s the role of both ? Men and women why the difference?
In my country, the role of men and women is whatever they decide it is. Same for those who don’t identify as either.
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Uh oh. If Zombie were here, I think this thread would get an angry response and big ol’ lock now.
As soon as I read to a certain point…immediately thought of ZombieMombie. (Who I miss btw, but I also totally respect her decision to leave).
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Our society has become so shallow
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Okay. But look… men, lots of men want very pretty, almost ideal women. That model or even escort type
That’s where they fail. Those ideal women for 99% of cases are actually looking for money, rather real good relationship
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Yea it goes both ways I guess, some men also prefer rich women.
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Ye ye, indeed
It just happens not so often
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