Think about this for a moment: Why would you ever choose to be with someone who is not excited to be with you?
There’s a grey area in dating many people get hung up on — a grey area where feelings are ambiguous or one person has stronger feelings than the other. This grey area causes real, tangible issues. As a man, a huge question is often whether to be persistent and continue pursuing a woman even when she seems lukewarm or hot/cold on your advances. For women, a common question is what to do with men who make their feelings ambiguous.
She did say for a while she thought I wasn’t interested… but what it really was… I’m not a man of the world… I had no idea she was making her feelings known, plus I thought she was really passionate about the plants… not me.
At least my Gf knew I don’t get the message as fast as others so she tried the direct approach… and waited for me to let that sink in. Glad she did.