My dad was never a sensitive person but he’s being an ■■■■■■■ more than usual today. My mom went and blabbed to him about my self harming and he keeps going “WHAT ARE YOU DOING? TELL ME, I NEED TO KNOW”, my mom goes “stop, he doesn’t want to say” and I say “I don’t want to say” and my dad repeats this sentence 4 more times, I’m just ignoring him at this point. I go upstairs to play with my ferret and he goes “SHOW ME YOUR BATTLE WOUNDS!” in his stupid happy voice ■■■■, like it’s an exciting joke he’s making. “You’re not practicing witch craft, are you?” I just want to tell him to ■■■■ off
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Maybe tell your mom to tell him to stop?
I’m sorry he’s being such an ■■■■■■■.
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Seriously what the ■■■■ is wrong with him? Has he always been like this? Sorry that happened to ya! 
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My Dad used to make fun of me even before I broke down - comments like “You’re beautiful - when you’re asleep.” and a sarcastic “I know what you’re going to do.” as if there were something wrong with being predictable. He was very destructive.
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I’m surprised you didn’t tell him ■■■■ off, I would of done. In fact… ■■■■ you supercools dad.
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How disrespectful of him.
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Yeah that’s how he is
Man if I could tell him “no” and “stop” and have him listen I don’t think I’d have any issues tbh. He’s got selective hearing
Haha thanks 
I was tempted to tell him to ■■■■ off but I don’t have it in me to swear to my parents. The backlash is too great
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Wow, sorry, I know it’s hard to to live with that.
You might try to imagine yourself growing a thick, turtle-like shell that repels all those mean comments.
Mean people aren’t likely to realize how destructive they are and stop on their own, so it’s best you try to minimize the damage on your own.
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I am sorry for you that you self harm.
I hope that has stopped now.
Can you talk to your father and tell him or tell your dr and ask your dr to tell him it upsets you.
He may not know what to say to you…
I used to slap myself to get some to leave my body etc and a few other things.
I used to get rudeculed about my pain and suffering.
Ridiculed with nastiness and hate but I like the wrongdoer somehow and forgive.
Can you write a letter to him?
Hope you will feel better and good with your parents and feel you have support to stop harming yourself.
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i have very little to do with my dad cause he uses my illness as his ammo
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Your Dad sounds like an ■■■■■■■…
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