@anon80629714 oh… i see. hmm… lots of guys in your life then. You should have made it more clear.
Yes. Lots of douches. The Snapchat guys I never met.
@exhile I don’t like competition.
Aggression is very bad.
I prefer to live in a civilized society, which I will try to promote.
I agree with what you say that if blocked you should keep away and that’s it.
@anon80629714 is unhappy about the person being aggressive, it is clear that the aggression is bad .
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I agree, @Erez_Shmerling!
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That was also my first relationship so I may have gotten it wrong in some ways about him but I went with how I felt. Scared.
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Yes I agree. But I wouldn’t say I was in a relationship with the Snapchat dudes I only spoke to them this morning 
the intent wasn’t to have sexual convos on my side so blocked
@Erez_Shmerling Oh, I wasn’t talking about @anon80629714 's case. Just aggressive in general like in sports, employment, market dominance etc…
Yeah, a guy should get the picture when he is being blocked.
Yeah, I can be neurotic about the opposite sex, myself. Sometimes I’m just trying to be too much of a gentleman!
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Well I think we’re a bit traditional when it comes to dating , I think we’re not advanced yet. Not that that is a bad thing. What do you think?
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@exhile I think we are referring to different definitions of the word aggressive.
http://www.dictionary.com/browse/aggressive?s=t
If aggressive in the sense of competitive, then it’s OK.
I don’t like competition but unfortunately that’s how the world is built as of today,
and you can’t blame someone for being competitive.
I don’t like aggression in the sense of making unprovoked attacks and offenses, which is the definition I think
of when talking of aggression.
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I really think a big part of it for me at least is, is that I don’t have much dating experience. As I’ve posted in other threads, there are times when either online or offline, when I have no trouble attracting female attention. It’s that initial spark of attraction and flirting that gives me such a high, and it can be hard to make a tangible and concrete move to get past it.
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It is my impression, Ish, that you are a pretty girl.
Jayster
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I’ve seen pics of you @anon80629714 and you are a prize beauty !! why don’t you try plenty o’ fish? It’s free and you can “interview” your potential dates before ever giving them any way to contact you? good luck.
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They need to find better ways to police the internet. These days you can’t be too careful.
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Do they even have Plenty o’ Fish in the U.K.?
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I tried that @jukebox it’s really not one for serious Dates and attracting serious attention. Not sure what it’s like in US but it’s worse than tinder in the uk.