person asked “what can I do to make my husband have with me?”
at first, I said “he might not be in the mood.”
but she said, “he makes excuses.”
then I answered “sometimes there’s nothing you can do. at a certain age, usually a man just doesn’t want. he just loses his libido/ urge/ passion.”
she said “we’re newly married”
I said “doesn’t matter if he married. if he’s an old man, he might not have that urge anymore.”
then she was insisting that she go find another person to talk to. I said sure. but I told her I was being honest. then she said he was 26 years old. and I said “why didn’t you tell me that before?”
she said “I told you we were newly married.”
and I said “newly married doesn’t mean the couple’s young.”
then she called me “lame” and “useless.”
and I said “sorry for being careful, paying attention, and not making assumptions. I hope you find a listener who will do all of those things.”
bottom line is that I was not prepared to tell her what she had to do to get a man to have with her…
if a man’s not in the mood, then he’s not in the mood.
funny, because I get mostly men coming to me with that issue. I guess I got “super lucky” today. kind of creeped-out now…
most awkward conversation ever. and I was the one who got crapped on.
Hard to say without knowing the couple, but I do know one couple that she says her hubby can have all he wants, but for whatever reason he goes solo. Glad i’m single always seems to be issue of some sort in a relationship
I went on 7Cups too after hearing it from you. At first I talked about some weird problems then I became a listener and had awhile bunch of guys hit on me because I had a woman avatar =)
Is it a website about sexual problems? I am happily single and celibate so I won’t be visiting if that is the case.
Edit: I just looked it up. Looks interesting but I see where it would be tempting for trolls
My first thought was it was about slurpee’s – You know, 7-11 cups of Slurpees.
Sorry @sirBoring, people can be a lot of buttheadedness rolled into small packages, and have no clue when to say thanks for trying to help.
Shame on that person you talked to on that site.
