How did you change?
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Just hit the point I wanted to be a better person in that area and had to work and fight with it, little easier when you are older
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Iāve been sexless for just about a year now. As Iāve been on atypicals straight that whole time. Before atypicals I was able to barely maintain relationships but I would always go crazy. Now Iām more stable but have no interest in sex.
Atypicals really ruin sex and Iām too young for viagra.
Iām in a holding pattern until I get out of this depression and begin to feel āsexyā again
I have tried but it sets off my psychosis and I start getting hallucinations of being molested again. I canāt tolerate that.
It is something I should bring up in therapy, Iām just mortified by the whole thing. Iām glad youāve improved.
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It is a common thing, you will not surprise the therapy people
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If we do go crazier without sex, I guess Iāll be in a straight jacket in a few years.
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Iām still a virgin, so no.
but if youāre talking about gender; then yes, I might get crazier.
fun fact: as funny as ācrazierā sounds, itās actually a legit word. man, I feel dumb right now.
Not that is counts for much your not the only one like it
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Hmm sex! The stress relief of the stress usually caused by the person you are having sex with.
Crazier with or without is the question.
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I ran into the same issue as you and was fighting it. Then sometimes fighting it made things worse as far as how moral my thoughts would be throughout the day. Well decided to give it up and my wife seemed to get a little more available so all is good now. Think giving it up was good for our sex life. Iāve adapted to going without a little longer but sex a little more often and a little better quality. I think morally itās about what you are fantasizing about. If you have to do it to control your thoughts I think it can be done in a way like your just maintaining your body, without all the fantasizing. Thatās how I got over it,. So this is all coming from someone that was exposed and addicted to porn at a young age. Found it repulsive and addictive at the same time, and wrestled with the morality of it all. Well thatās pretty much all behind me now been porn free for somewhere between 6 to 12 years really donāt remember when I seen porn last. I wouldnāt wish that addiction on anyone.
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As soon as i tried it i hated it with a passion.
It was disgusting, awkward, nasty, putrid even.
I want control over my body so i can just shut the ā ā ā ā ā ā ā ā off for the rest of my life, donāt need it, donāt want it, and i donāt want to want it.
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Life is sum of luck and choices.
Good luck
Bad luck
Good choices
Bad choices
All misery in life is due to bad luck and or bad choices
So absence of sex can make you crazy if and if there is such a possibility
when you and your possibilities are in consideration.
I am totally sure that itās not the case with all life.
So, the million dollar answer is,
sex can make you crazy and not
also absence of sex can make you crazy and not
it all depends upon you and your possibilites turning into reality.
That is all.
- Way One To Go.
And, sorry I didnāt read even a single post, only the title.
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I was sort of addicted to porn since I was very young. I distinctly remember not being repulsed or ashamed by it, I was fascinated. Sex was always very intriguing to me.
I didnāt start feeling guilty about it until I became religious in middle school. Iām not so religious anymore, mostly spiritual, so the guilt is gone now uehehe. The fixation has not and Iām still quite interested in it as a phenomenon and donāt mind discussing it.
I also sometimes wonder how sex could compare to masturbation. I feel like it couldnāt satisfy me as well. I often masturbate for hours at a time and orgasm pretty much every time I do intensely. From what I hear girls donāt usually get that lucky in sex 
Of course I mostly hear from my friends who have dumb college boy boyfriends so who knows.
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This is the only post I read in this topic and, yes I too heard such things from someone like prep talks etc;
Sorry itās not prep talk.
Correctionā¦ itās like words in windā¦
I definitely feel calmer without sex in my life. Iāve had sex 5 or so times so far and enough is enough. I donāt need sex again for the rest of my life. Itās just not me.
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That is exactly what I call, the way of life, in other words, life is like, suit your self.
Matchingā¦
Sick or not, people can get mad for sex. lol.
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Sex with my hand might sound crazy to some people but I been happy every day since I tried it
I have been crazy before after during and since Iāve been loving you_______________
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Wellā¦ sex is an insane processā¦ if it werenāt for the pleasure itād be disregardedā¦ the unfortunate thing is that in states of displeasure with it, we still ponder over itā¦ and no it doesnāt make sense.
Some people value it more than life itself. Oppositely, some folk treat it like an eventual handshake for those who got their candor and winks rightā¦
and frankly from what Iāve heard everyone is bad at it!
Truly insane it isā¦ donāt let it trouble you. None of of anyone getās what they want. As soon as they do they just see higherā¦ Fuels creativityā¦ as useless and even debaucherous as it is.