after my recovery from being unstable it took me a long time to be happy with what I have because I went from being an architect to living on disability…so being happy with what I have…that’s my wisdom… and 38 is totally still young…good for you and happy birthday @anon1517417
Maybe for me, regarding Gender… I think what I know now is that men and women are different for differing reasons than I ever identified.
To explain, it’s that women biologically can only have a very finite number of offspring; whereas men, can have many more numerous numbers of kids, scientifically this is.
I never read the famous book about Mars and Venus, that may have covered this, and it couldn’t have hurt me had I read it.
Alas, that’s a book, and I historically haven’t read for fun, to put it one way : )