I met with a relative today who I haven’t seen in a while. They’re an academic. I failed to get my degree which is a very sore point with me.
Most of the conversation was about university and academic stuff. They just went on and on and on AND ON. I actually felt belittled and drained at the end of what was basically a monologue.
I feel you. My step-dad is a retired professor who taught business for years at the local university. I’ve heard a million monologues, speeches and lectures. I was telling my sisters that when he gets going on one of his lectures it’s like he forgets anyone else is in the room and its like he is just sitting there alone, talking for himself and who’s ever bearing the brunt of this is just a shapeless blob faded into the background.