Being nice

I want to be nice to everyone I meet or see on the street, I’m so paranoid and scared I avoid looking at people when I’m at a store or gas station, and if someone says hi or smiles it makes my day so I want to get better and being nice and positive. I was like this years ago before everything, I will get back to that one day. Anyone else feels this way?

Yes. I think the key is to relax.

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Oh yeah, sure. When I lived downtown a few years ago I walked 4 blocks to my car every morning. I said hello to everybody I passed. And 7-11 was next door and i was there three or four times a day and talked and joked around with the homeless and other customers. My stay there was generally crappy but I sometimes enjoyed my fellow tenants and some of the homeless or people from other group homes.

Today and yesterday I talked to a stranger passing by it gave me anxiety but oh well at least I was nice and had a nice small talk

I am nice to everyone even if I don’t like them and also find it hard to look people in the eye. It makes my day if a customer service person is kind to me

Yes, I generally have a very friendly disposition.

I get disappointed and even more paranoid if I say hello and they ignore me

I’m always nice. I had more than one boss tell me I’m too nice

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