I’m very useful at work, but beyond that, not much. Work takes SO much out of me mentally and physically that I’m not there at home much.
It was three years ago.
People tend to fluctuate from month to month, at least I do. I hope you are about to enter a period of time when your functioning gets much better. Best wishes!
I don’t hate the way my life is, being at home wondering what’s going to happen next and feeling sorta powerless. I just feel extremely guilty.
Have you had a performance review?
I’m useful as a human being but not as a “worker”, because I don’t work. I just volunteer.
I’m useful as both, just to what levels—that varies from day to day!
Some days I feel overwhelmed and there’s too much noise from the office and I end up with glazed eyes just staring at this computer screen scrolling up and down at random intervals with my mouse.
Other days, the people I tutor thank me for being “so patient” and for “teaching me” and I feel useful.
As a human being, I volunteer as a tutor, too, but only for 2 hours on the weekends. It helps me cope with my anxiety about tutoring. It also makes me feel like a good person who cares about others.
Some days though, I show up for volunteering and I’m like, how close is the end of the tutoring session? and always check my watch. Other days, I lose track of time and I’m exited about student’s progress and I can’t stop walking around checking their papers—and not my watch!
I think I need to start charting my moods to see what’s going on with the variability in my productivity.
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