Iam posting about my mother who is controlling and a nightmare to live with,she has never been fully convinced about my Paranoid SZ or ever really supported me.Since my Dad died 5 and half years he was my rock visting me in hospital everday she has gotten worse by the day and is now unbearable to live with.She also in denial about my SZ and thinks there is a magical pill to cure me,my siblings know what she is like but do nothing to help me.I have recently started a part time job to support my Ebay UK business,but currently do not have enough money for deposit for place of my own.Any advice please!
Hang in there see this as motivation to become financially independant.
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when I suggest my mom is being a royal bi=tch, she says I’m bullying her.
Everyone has their weaknesses, and I would suggest you fight it out, instead of walking away.
I took Communications and Conflict, and it can really clear the air. Assuming it doesn’t get out of hand.
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Sit your mother down and tell her
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My father was an overbearing, controlling, abusive, a-hole. Oh, did I mention he was a pedophile too?
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Thanks for all the respsones guys and gals I have tried talking to her she even tries to intervere in my Ebay business enough enough as soon as I get place of my own iam done with her,my Dad would spinning in his grave at her antic tbh
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Getting a place of your own is a good idea
I live alone and I like freedom
It can get lonely but having your own space is nice as you can relax and do your hobbies watch tv eat when you want
It’s good
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totally agree, when I was 22 and pregnant and living with my parents they said I had to live by their rules. What??? I’m no longer a child. I’ll never live with them again.
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@shellys12 Totally agree and thanks for kind response I want a girlfriend, but she wants me to live with her forever, I have had enough, I have been in recovery for 9 years from Paranoid SZ, before that my life was fooking ■■■■, time to live my own life now, not hers or her version of what mine should me!
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sorry meant should be!
My mom was pretty tolerant, but she could yank my chain from time to time. It’s hard for your parents not to think of you as their kid. At a certain age offspring will want to be treated like an adult, and parents often aren’t sensitive to that.
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you could always consider a halfway house/group home…they will help you get your life in order
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