It could happen. People get to know each other, share deep feelings, and then before you know it someone types to the other “Will you marry me?” We could all throw virtual rice after the virtual wedding.
I think it’s against the rules to talk about it openly on the forum but if two love each other and are compatible/right for each other. Who’s gonna really stop private messages that lead to marriage? I’d say it’s possible. But the guidelines make this an anonymous forum you’re not supposed to meet people. I’d rather meet ppl here than those creeps on pof and tinder though!
I’m sure the moderators read the private messages though. What a steamy courtship they would have a front row seat to. Or to separate. Reminds me of Catholic high-school dances where the nuns push the dancers apart on slow dances. They would say “Now now. Leave room for the Holy Spirit.”
Moderators do not have access to other forum members’ PMs. Only @szadmin has that capability but would not read forum members’ PMs except in very rare circumstances.
It has happened before - people who met here got married - but unfortunately it didn’t last. But - more generally we recommend you use this site for support and friendship. We recommend a high level of caution around the idea of meeting people in real life that you get to know here. There are reports of people who target the mentally ill to get money and other things.