Any family members who are bullies?

Are there any bullies in your family?
My brother is a bully who gets his kicks putting me down.

I don’t put up with his shitt anymore.

How do you deal with the bullying?

Today I let him get under my skin.

Best thing to do is ignore his crap.

Lesson learned.

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Not really any bullies in my family, no.

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My father was a bully, abusive.
I still have the traumas

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ah no bullies in my family… guess i’m lucky =)

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My eldest sister used to bully my father.

But me, my other sister and two brothers put a stop to it.

She made poor life choices and blamed my Dad for it. We basically all told her to grow up and take responsibility for her own actions.

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One of my sisters was really mean. I mean really mean. I finally gave up having a relationship with her. I no longer speak to her at all

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Unfortunately while my father lives with me, I have no choice but to deal with him.
When my father is gone it will be a different story.

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My sister isn’t very nice. Fortunately I don’t see her often anymore.

My parents are more pleasant people

The other day on my birthday dinner my sister told the story of meeting me when I left the hospital being born How she didn’t wanna see me and would rather go to a party. “Party or new brother. I chose party” she said she said.

Her mentality has carried over into adulthood

I get that happens in some children. They hate the idea of a newborn sibling. But my sister I really feels she never wanted me born. And to tell that story at my birthday dinner??

She doesn’t help her case by never changing her mentality either

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Almost all of them. I was their target. My brother, who is 12 years younger than I am had a good relationship though my mom eventually turned him against me, like she did with even my friends. So now I have no one but my aunt, who is lovely at least.

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I’m sorry @Om_Sadasiva @Jonnybegood @anon39054230 @CoCo and @fractaled.

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that’s terrible… so mean =(

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That is terrible, I’m so sorry @fractaled

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It’s cool.

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I try to avoid one of me brothers as he thinks he’s high class and that mentally ill ppl and ppl on welfare are all low class, he called them parasites to society.

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I’m sorry @Aziz

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that’s terrible huh…

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My other brother is much nicer to me and understands mental illness but he picks on me that I eat too much and that I am obese.

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My older brother isn’t a bully he just hates me for some weird reason. Lol

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Growing up, I was the family bully. I worked hard at improving myself and correcting my mistakes, but I blame myself for my siblings insecurities.
One of my sisters had become the K word though, and that’s almost as bad as bullies.
She’s also agressively extroverted.
I have nothing against extroverts, but she’s the kind of people who constantly tries to “teach” introverts to be social, and belittles her husband for wanting to play a game by himself for 30 minutes after a long day instead of socializing.

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I had a friend like that, he knows almost everyone in my city, he kept on pushing me to meet new ppl and on hooking me up with girls everyday. He easily talk to strangers and get their phone number like girls at a nightclub lineup etc He stressed me, I stopped talking to him, he called many times and I told him I dont want to hangout, he stopped calling at the end.

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