An identity crisis

being sz becomes an identity to people who know us only slightly and people who use us for it. It can be difficult to break through the barrier that builds up and to be a warmer person. We can also be a target of projection from other szs.

Yes, it is helpful to have other people on here to watch each other’s backs.

It’s hard to know who you are as an individual if all you ever identify with is something someone else defines.

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