maybe try asking her what she wants out of life… for herself, for your relationship… for others… etc.
if she doesnt have any will power to cause change to occur that will motivate her to get off her bottle then she will remain a alcoholic until she sees a opportunity to make a last ditch effort to redeem her life even if that means leaving. however if you work with her through her moment of darkness you both will come out even stronger as you will have some experience overcoming hurdles in life
I’m sorry u going through this @TomCat
I dont have a girlfriend or wife but I can imagine what u going through is terrible.
Regards
Wallafish
Did she drink when y’all got married? I mean were there any red flags? @TomCat
Accidentally tagged the wrong person sorry
Ya. She has always drank. I used to drink too but I quit when I got diagnosed. 9 years sober now.
What is her rock bottom? What if you moved out? I’m not talking divorce here ok. Maybe if you moved out she would know you mean business. Maybe that can be a rock bottom for her
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