It depends on hooooow something is said.
But I don’t think it sounds nice by your description.
My father can say hurtful things too.
I decided to love my parents unconditionally and to keep the peace not mention it when they have a nasty comment (if I can) just pretend like I didn’t hear it if I can to keep the peace.
But I’m not close with my parents and one reason is nasty things that have been said.
I would have loved them more if they were not said .
Some people are able to break contact with their parents or stand up to them .
I have stood up to my parents but often choose not to to keep the peace.
My mum yelled at me last year for wearing to much makeup and I said it’s none of her business and we have different taste and she yelled I’m not leaving the apartment looking like that and I said yes I am then my former stepmother complimented me on my makeup and said she loved how I had done my makeup.
Ha ha ha ha ha so there.
I think the way your father talks to you is wrong buuuuut can you stand up to him?
Will he go furious?
Is it better to just keep the peace but be upset about it rightfully yet not tell him so you don’t fight.
I think his behaviour sounds bad but sometimes I feel it’s not worth bringing it up because that would bring on a fight of worse.