About being strong front of the others

I am not a machine, just a human. But why do I always try to be strong front of the others. It’s hard to find a permanent solution to be strong. Isn’t it just cute that we are not too manly? I have also a feminine side so yeah - behaving strong is there only, because of my automatic self-defense. I need to be more Gay and less Terminator.

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LOL this is funny… Having feelings and showing them doesn’t mean you are gay… unless you are gay… but that just means you are gay… and nothing to do with being feminine… lol lol… Ahhh its good to embrase who you are :smiley:

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I don’t think it’s gay not to keep your emotions bottled up.
I think it’s human.

Sometimes we have to stay strong, but at other times, it’s okay to let the weakness take over. Emotions are natural, and are there for a reason, and keeping them bottled up will only intensify them.

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To add to that I’d love to be with someone who was emphathetic… :smiley: but it is so rare or the guys just like to hide their feelings…

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I am not Gay, I’m metrosexual and sexually hetero.

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… And when they finally do show their feelings, the feeling is usually anger, because guys tend to get angry when they’re sad or frustrated or scared.

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Nobody said you were.
But you implied that showing feelings, or not hiding them, meant someone was gay

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I am hiding my feelings and also trying to psych them out of me. Anyway, I was referring to Gay only to make sense to you people. The real me is pretty mellow and kind and I know I need to let them out.

make sense to us people how?
It made even less sense than if you had just said ‘emotional’ :stuck_out_tongue:

Trying to act like you’re strong by not showing feelings is often a sign of weakness, not strength. Also, please think twice before posting something that could be offensive. It’s offensive when you equate being gay with being emotional and contrast it with being a powerful machine.

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If someone gets offended of this then wow! What part was offensive?

… The part where you didn’t see that calling emotional people gay is offensive.

Even if it was just for shits and giggles

You totally misunderstood my point then. BRAVO!

If you don’t understand how you’re being offensive, just stay clear of all stereotypes in the future. That way, I won’t have to suspend you.

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