(33M Bisexual) Anyone else tired of being alone? All my friends are getting married, moving on with their lives, and having someone to cuddle with when they go to sleep at night. I don’t care if the match is weird, I would rather be with someone than fade into obscurity.
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I like being alone, i woukd be scared to be someone in bed. If i cant hold a job, then i cant hold a relationship
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Haha. If you’re looking for someone you’ll find what you’re looking for, I imagine.
You gotta make efforts I’ve found. If you’re not gonna give it your 100% it won’t happen.
If you’re like me and scare people away : video record yourself and see what you do well and what behaviors need to be dropped.
GL
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Nah. Before I was schizophrenic I had a relationship that I wasn’t totally into, while they were into me, and it just didn’t work. I’d rather be alone than in a flimsy relationship.
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My sister is talking to a guy who keeps saying things like “no woman wants me” while she spends hours every day on the phone with him. Dude is living out of his car right now looking for work while having knee problems. He’s a nice dude but he keeps saying crap like that. My sister is like “Hello! We’ve been talking for 8 months!” Stupidhead. My sister will stick with a guy thru anything
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I’ve tried the whole schpiel of being with anyone to not be alone.
It always ends up toxic and unpleasant.
Plus, people can detect that kind of desperation and find it off-putting, unless they’re looking for an easy victim to manipulate.
Try dating sites or hobby activities, talk to some people and see if a genuine interest sparks.
When people ask me what it’s like to be bi, I jokingly reply “it’s great, now I get to be rejected by twice as many people!” 
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Yeah, it’s a tough thing to be alone for me. I have a hard time dealing with all the alone hours. Most of my close friends have moved on with families and kids and are mostly unavailable.
I’m trying to find the courage to just get out of the house. At least I can be around other people if I go to a cafe or something like that. Even if they are strangers it still feels a lot better than being home alone.
Hopefully I will meet a woman, but I still need to work out how I’m going to cope with being by myself when she isn’t around. Hoping to get some new good routines to not spend too much time at home. I think that would help me.
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Sometimes I think it would be nice to have someone, but then other times I am really glad I am single.
Plus I don’t know any relationship that is all that great in reality. Fights, divorces, cheating, etc…
Been with my gf for just about two years now. Her and I both are bisexual lol. Going pretty good. But yeah it can be hard to find someone that fits well for a relationship when dealing with mental health issues aswell. But it can be done.
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I’d be the last to advise you, I’ve taken my marker off the board. I’ve just become happy with being a bachelor.
I was talking last year with a girl, and it was going great until she started telling me that she was falling in love with me. We hadn’t even met yet.
Part of me just wanted to close my eyes and dive in Neck Deep. But, I know from experience that sort of thing crashes like a train wreck eventually
I know what loneliness feels like, and it’s sure not easy. Either way, I hope you find some peace and happiness
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