I just want to know what people would do if in situation
this is really a funny situationâŚ!!!
let it happenâŚgood luck for uâŚ!!!
Iâm in no condition to start a relationship right now, Iâve got too many negative symptoms and zero libido. So I would probably do nothing about it.
However, your situation may be different and so I encourage you to take action. Life is short and itâs up to us to make it beautiful.
Sorry for my words. I also donât know what to do.
talk to them and see where it goes?
Idk the site guidelines says it is extremely risky to meet members of this site. Schizophrenics can be dangerous you know
But in all seriousness, I wouldnât know what to do except for keeping things in PM or on another chat/email (which can be anonymous if youâd like that) as to respect the forumâs guidelines.
I had never read the community guidelines.
they have a tendency to disappear from the forum as I view it too, even though when I click the actual topic it says it is pinned. Ah well, the search function works pretty good.
My first wife I met on here. she lived in Arizona and I lived in Florida but I went to her and we were married within the yearâŚI say go for it.
Itâs not advisable to meet people from the internet. It can be dangerous.
The reason it is on the guidelines is that it is for your own protection.
Of course, youâll do what you think best.
But be cautious.
@TwialineâŚ
I think we all know youâre talking about your secret crush on me! Youâre completely smitten and slowly falling in love with my every post! Itâs okay, youâre only human!
But Iâm taken. So youâll just have to bury your lustful thoughts and move on!
Do you trust me minnii
Like if I went to Lisbon of course weâd meet up and have coffee, right??? As friends of course.
Iâd probably pay to get a background check on you first.
Trust? Noone!
I just canceled my flight to Lisbon
Lol itâs not you.
I knew it that first or second comment would be someone posting forum guidelines
Iâve been trying to respond to this one for a while.
Iâm on the âfriendship, not romanceâ side through experience, because I found a nice guy here who lived a state away and it nearly caused me to relapse.
Itâs not just that meeting people from the internet can be dangerous, though obviously that sometimes is the case. Itâs that relationships are stressful, long distance ones even more so, and weâre a population that has more issues with stress than most.
Youâre going to make your own decision, but I hope youâre cautious. Protect yourself physically, and try to keep some distance emotionally.
Maybe start with a few PMâs just to get to know him better in a safe environment. Then you could move to email and see where it goes. Iâm all for love and falling in love so my first impulse is to say go for it, but do it very cautiously and safely.
I met my partner on a forum for gaming. Many many years ago. We became really good friends, emailed a lot. Then we started calling, then I traveled down to his state to visit family and met him and then the rest is history. But it took many years of friendship before anything blossomed.
I met my spouse on the Internet. I say, whatever you decide, please keep it to PMs. I donât think I could handle another couple spamming the boards with their not-so-private love threads
Has it happened before?!