While it may seem well-intended to your way of thinking, such direct, in-your-face “analyses” of others here is usually counterproductive and hostility- or decompensation-inducing.
Most sz pts have anxiously paranoid belief systems that predispose them to being unable to even contemplate or consider notions far less emotionally triggering than this.
(As I have learned from trying to come at some of them a lot more obliquely.)
I can, too. But I don’t think she has moved far enough along a process of abstractions needed to be able to get that yet. (Took me a while.)