I'm frustrated with bad men. My friend went on a date with a guy. She wasn't feeling any chemistry but she was still polite and spent time with him and whatnot. After the date they went their separate ways.
He texted her and she didn't respond right away because she was busy and again hadn't really felt chemistry with him. He immediately insults her for "ghosting" (this is only 30 mins to an hour after he sent the first text). She tried to be patient with him and explain that she realized she didn't really have time for a relationship right now and he berated her saying she should make time and finally she was up front about it and said she didn't like him in that way and he snapped that she didn't even have the common decency to friendzone him. (What?!) Anyways she stopped talking to him and he had continued to sporadically send her texts insulting her. I told her to block him.
Women don't deserve that. Guys, if you are interested in a girl but she is not interested in you, you CAN'T be angry with that girl. We have no control over our feelings or chemistry. I understand being rejected sucks but if you put yourself out there it's going to happen and you have to be mature about it....though all the guys on here are so sweet I'm sure no one would act the same as those awful guys!!
Meanwhile I'm sick of being catcalled....it scares me so much....especially when I am alone and there is no one else around....last night while walking back to my apartment a group of boys kept yelling at me "EY WHITE GIRL, EY WHITE GIRL" and it scared the bejeezus out of me. I don't know if when guys catcall they are going to go further and act on it, I have been physically grabbed and touched before, I have ptsd and paranoia and it horrifies me.
Ok rant over.