POLL: Do you enjoy sex?

  • Yes
  • No
  • Sometimes
  • Never
  • Sex is over-rated
  • Other

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No elaboration here I see.

Good and bad. My failures and there’s. ■■■■ happens so it goes.

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What kind of question is this?

So I’m an athlete, I’ve done different sports and activities, but being a player was the most pleasurable sport.

I would have sex right now with someone I find attractive. It really helps me sleep and not talk to myself. Oh and I can’t do drugs like normal people or even get drunk and I quit cigarettes so sex is like the only dopamine activity left. Too bad I quit it as well. I’m a senior and on my way out of here and damn sure am not leaving with both chronic scz and HIV. No.

I used to do retarded high risk behaviors or whatever unprotected sex is called.

But it was so fun.

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Not having sex since my illness. My dream would be having someone I truly love by my side.

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Decided I’m not watching porn anymore

Depends on the day… and the meds…

I sort of see sex as the icing… not the cake…

That’s a nice dream :smile:

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Sex feels good and all, but I honestly don’t like being that close to other people. I could go the rest of my life without it. I’ve already gone a year and it hasn’t bothered me at all. I’ve got a special drawer if I feel the urge, but I don’t often.

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One thing is for sure - Risperdal, the drug that I am on now does a number on your sex drive - its chemical castration!

My libido is down the toilet, and my ED is awful! I may switch APs for this reason alone.

I mean healthy sexual fantasies are normal - Risperdal robbed me of those as well - its just awful.

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yeah I’ve stopped having sexual fantasies completely/ Now that I think about it.

I would like to have sex on every opportunity I get, as long as I’m healthy. Better sleep, better dreams, released tension, I also like touching and cuddling and kissing. I just feel happier and I also enjoy the pleasure. Just to say a few things :smiling_imp:

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On a normal day… sex is not my main focus… it doesn’t bother me if it doesn’t happen.

But I would be a very sad person if I never got hugs again.

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awwwww :innocent: everybody loves hugs :grinning: group hug :bear:

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I absolutely hated sex just because I couldn’t stand having other people touching me. But now, my fiancé and I spent so long slowly increasing my toleration that I now love sex, and initiate it at least three times a week unless I’m stressed about something.

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I used to be really avoidant of physical contact. Now I make a point to shake people’s hands and to hug very close people like family. Also dated a number of people since then, that was a little more than hugs…

Yeah I can recall stuff like vasopressin and oxytocin being released upon positive physical contact. Part of my background is in fighting where contact meant “war” so it really took some research on my own about physical contact and a deliberate effort to change my perception of it.

Now I might seem too hand shaky to some people, I shake everyone’s hand, oh well. Beats only recalling physical contact in fighting and grappling.

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only with you :heart: btw are you in a relationship?

Of course I do. Problem is, the pseudo “alpha” males have seemed to have taken more than their fair share of females. The hetero world used to be ripe & pretty, but now it’s just a broken cesspool.

I’m staying out of all of it for my own personal safety.

Precisely… (Rejection sucks too)