I don't think people have or don't have a mate because they do or don't deserve them. I don't try because the normie women aren't going to go for a guy that lives with a relative and won't stay with a guy with sza. Also I'm fat. I do however shower every day.
Once I get my own place and maybe lose more weight I plan on trying a dating site for MI. But that may not work due to low population here and surrounding area.