I think it is unfortunate but you have to let other people define their part of the relationship. I constantly feel like I can’t connect with people and anytime I want to talk about being ill or feeling down, they either don’t want to talk or just sit quietly until I’m done. So instead of trying to make the people in your life who don’t want to talk discuss it, just realize the limits of the relationship and find people who are open. And when you find that open person, totally give me their number lol. 'Cause I’m not having much luck.
(But it is unfair. People should accept all of someone they care about and not be ‘I’ll just be here for your good moments.’)