That is interesting. I don’t doubt you that men do feel pressure and that women pressure them.
It’s funny because, as a female, I have always felt a lot of pressure to have sex. I would never pressure a man to perform. I am always the one who feels pressured.
Maybe you are just used to masturbating. Maybe get her to use hand first lol.
But I bet the meds reduce sex drive regardless
The pressure from women doesn’t really come in that way. It just seems to me that a lot of women expect all men to be stud muffins. I think most of the pressure comes from other men, though.
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That’s probably true. I wouldn’t know about how the internal pressure is with men.
I think it’s performance anxiety.
Here’s how to fix it: Do intense cardio exercise (30 minutes+) every other day (it’s all about that bloodflow, that bloodflow, that bloodflow) AND engage in a lot of foreplay.
For a lot of men the bottom line is how you perform with your ■■■■■. I’m not that way, but I do have other masculine compulsions.
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Unfortunately it’s not performance anxiety. And I do exercise frequently. 4-5 times a week I weight lift with cardio.
I take cialis or viagra when I need to, and sometimes it works well, sometimes its meh.
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I think it is part of the male libido to want to conquer somebody and have sex with them. Sometimes the distinction between that and rape can become blurred. I remember seeing on TV this story about these basketball players who raped this girl. If they had used just a little charm she probably would have had sex with them voluntarily. But no, they had to rape her. The way people can denigrate a “■■■■” is probably because they feel threatened by a woman enjoying sex. She doesn’t need to be conquered.