My motto is: if it happens it happens. If it never happens again it’s no big deal.
I don’t actively pursue it in the least.
But I think about sex. I have sexual fantasies all the time. When I’m at work vacuuming with no one around my mind will wander and I think, "Wow, what if the hot woman soldier I’m friendly with walked in and we started talking and one thing led to another… "When I’m walking down the street with some pretty girl walking ten feet ahead of me, I definitely check her out. I never stare enough so they catch me but a great ass, is a great ass and its almost impossible not to look. I’m 56; I think about the lowest age in a woman that I could get serious about without it being too weird is 45.
I am happy to say that there are plenty of mature women around my age who are still cute and sexy.
But I know I would be too good in the bedroom for them and they could never could keep up.
Wow, I’ve been lying a lot lately, lol.