Do you guys ever want to get married or has already married?

have a gf/bf? a good relationship?

i want to know how you guys maintain a better relationship with your partner, and will you tell him or her your situation? how they react to your symptoms?

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31 still a virginā€¦i decided not to get married in this life timeā€¦!!!

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have you dated before?

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i straightaway went for proposing a girlā€¦out of surprised she yelled at meā€¦so i gave Upā€¦!!!
and what about Uā€¦???

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i dont have a stable relationship nowā€¦

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I m married and don t have child.we are really happy but we have really special relationship with my wife.in fact it was impossible to keep a girl or woman with my sick life but she was really patient.she always looked forward and wait to recovery.she is really special to me.we was have childhood love and relationship since 22 years.we are 35 yeaes old by the way.but people who are look forward relationship must try to find a partner who has same problem as them.don t try to find normie person.it is impossible i think

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iā€™d like to but probably wont, my mum is hopeful because she said she would like a grand daughter and i was like ā€˜probably wont happen nowā€™ iā€™m 34 and i am not good at online dating or going out looking, i guess if i do find someone she will have to find me or mutual,

i looked on the online dating sites and all the women look the same so i dont know what to do, nobody really stands out to me :confused:

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I was married years and years ago, I failed, quit dating around 30, just to much hassle. I donā€™t do well with drama and I donā€™t change, so wish I could just find someone that wants to be with me and not go to work trying to change everything.

At 30, I decided I was just no good at relationships. I have worked hard labor all my life and when I come home just want to do whatever Iā€™m in the mood for. Nap, watch TV or do stuff, what I canā€™t handle is opening the door and someone all over me going on on what needs to be done. Add that to me being in psychosis and it all just falls apart, because before I knew I had schizophrenia, it was just what life was like.

With the right person, I think I could do okay now. I have had success on line with chatting and stuff for long term. Yes it has failed but mostly cause the other person has changed and started drinking everyday. (I donā€™t drink) Might not be real, but its very satisfying having someone on line you can Skype and chat with everyday. You can still love a person without ever meeting them in person.

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You got married at 13?!

Oh nevermind, I get it now.

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im married, before i got diagnosed with Bipolar, we had loads of me moving out, i felt dissassociated and felt he didnt want me things like that, went to quite a few doctors over the years etc. but now that he knows its my illness hes alot more better about it, hes my rock as he has always been there no matter what i did or said or if i left which has been about 40 or 50 times xx and i mean ive got a new home n stuff and gone to a new town or new county etc.

but yeh before that i couldnt stand being living together with anyone, but obviously i didnt know i had something wrong i just thought that everyone saw n heard things etc. so i never really cottoned onto real relationships when i was younger, i had to wait til i was 41 before me n my husband got together and i got married at 43 xxx

butim sure f you know about your illness and you let someone know and if they are great people like my husband they will be there for you xxxxxxxxxxxx

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I just recently got married. It was never hard for me to get a partner, but I had a lot of trouble keeping one. Once they realized I was just as crazy as I was hot, they would bail. But then I started taking my meds and working on becoming a better person. Once I did those things, I was able to meet someone and treat him the way he deserved to be treated. And now, when I do have some extra crazy spells, itā€™s okay, because heā€™s already hooked!

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Married and divorced already. I thought my marriage would last forever and so now Iā€™m against marrying again. I have a live in girlfriend and thatā€™s enough for me.

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I married when I was 24 to an abusive husband. We divorced after having a baby and I didnā€™t date for almost 13 years so I could focus on raising my son. I remarried almost three years ago. My husband now is undiagnosed for anything. Heā€™s generally normal but heā€™s a loner and different from most typical so heā€™s very tolerant of my issues.
Itā€™s really difficult being married. I love my husband very much but being married adds stress and triggers issues for me.

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Iā€™ve been declared ā€œincapacitatedā€ and I donā€™t know how that would affect my ability to get married. I canā€™t register to vote because I have been declared incapacitated. I donā€™t know how it would affect my ability to do things like enter into contracts and what not. Getting married is a basic right, and I donā€™t think they can legally prevent me from doing so. Iā€™m too old to raise kids. By the time they were ten I would be sixty-seven.

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Iā€™m 36 single/virgin and masturbate a lot. The only girl friend I ever had is internet porn. I was always shy and against porn but now I am at home with internet porn. Iā€™m so shy I donā€™t even look at girls and for several years almost 19-20 years I donā€™t even know about sex and never understood or thought about how a child is born. Now I know how a female looks like. Without internet porn I would be lost. My parents want me to be married but I want to marry a girl of my choice when I have financial freedom.

  1. Problem 1 ā€”> I donā€™t have a girl of my choice.

  2. Last problem ā€”> I donā€™t have financial freedom.

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Iā€™ve been married and divorced 3x. Not real lucky. Donā€™t have a bf.

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I donā€™t have a gf and it would be difficult to get one because I am 29 and still live with my mom. I am thinking of becoming a monk, nevertheless I masturbate and watch porn.

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Iā€™m married for four years now, hubby is very understanding of my sz, although when I married I didnā€™t yet know I still had it as I was coming out of a long remission and had thought I was cured. But hubby stuck by me thru thick and thin and I stuck by him thru his epilepsy attacks all these years. We are quite close. Donā€™t have a child yet, but we are hoping we may get one, even with our difficulties with our illnesses.

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