Addicted to porn what to do?

Addicted to porn what to do ?
i never leave day with watching porn rarely

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I struggle with this too. Things I have found helpful are replacing porn time with other things until you build new habits. Also building a fresh new computer and laying a ground rule that I will not download onto it. But it is difficult. I am single. Sometimes it is good to release.

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My son found a group that met at a. Church that dealt with porn addiction. He is 3 months without it and very proud of himself. He has a much better outlook on women. I’m proud of him too. There are groups out there.

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I don’t know man. Study tantra so you can have pleasure internally without touching yourself. Then you can transcend porn.

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You have to try and find satisfaction in other things. You feel the urge for pleasure so if you do something you emjoy instead then you’ll find more happiness.

Do you watch it all day every day? B/c if it’s for a short time once a day I wouldn’t call that abnormal.

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reflect on the porn you already watched in your mind instead of watching new porn

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Transmute your desire into something constructive

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I feel like a lot of it is habit.

You want to get off, you watch porn.

Once you go a few days without watching it, I think its easier,

But breaking the cycle is hard, you just have to set goals and reward yourself.

You know, not sexually.

Maybe sexually, but without porn.

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Taper off slowly. Maybe just stop watching orgies and threesomes and taper down to wife-swapping and voyeurism. Do this for 4 months.

The next step is only watching girl on girl. Try this for a month.

The next step is just watching YouTube videos off dogs humping. Do this for two and a half weeks.

The final step is only downloading cats cleaning themselves for two days a week.

Follow these steps exactly and I gurentee that you will be cured.

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Maybe you could watch less explicit porn. I’ve found that I am sometimes more interested in R rated stuff than in pornography, but that could be just me.

Get on a potent antipsychotic and u will be bored watching it from now on

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lol, I can give you the scare itself…but its not worth it bro. I’m srry if things are not working out…but maymbe you got connections to get you there? I respect the advice you guys got…but I dunno man…its not really answering. no offense bro’s…its because he wants to go beyond that. he/she wants more than that…its not Porn he wants.

don’t get me wrong, I don’t like porn itself because what it has become…im more of a romantic guy or whatever. I dunno if you read my last post but I cant give you too much details also. It doesn’t even matter though…as a beginner person. You know how they say be yourself? do that, but be REAL in what you are…and if they don’t like it…then whatever. You have choices too bro

Honestly when I’m on meds I find the urge to masturbate is stronger. I think It maybbenpartly due to My body trying to reject chemicals not naturally found in our bodies. My advice is good old willpower. When I’m on meds I worry my wee wee won’t work anymore. Hahah when I’m off meds I know it does but I don’t abuse it. Too much pornography can be harmful but there is recovery. Just like a drug, it takes willpower not to do it.

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some porn can be better than sex…both sex and porn finish the same way

Whats wrong with porn?

It’s free and easy.

Yeah, a wasted $25.00.

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Think about things like this:
1)What do you prove by looking at porn?
2)If you contacted the women whose pictures you are staring at would they reply?
3) How do you treat women when you are not staring at porn?
4) Is there something better to do?
I quit porn 2 years ago and it changed my perspective of women. I still don’t have wonderful relationships with them but I treat them with more respect than I did and some terrible dreams I was having stopped. I also have quit judging my nieces by their appearance. Beauty is temporary for women and their ability to otherwise survive is more important. If you think porn is so great look for a pictorial cnn.com once showed of burlesque queens who “still had it”. Only one of them was not covered with wrinkles. A real relationship survives after the looks are gone. And yes age gets us all.

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